#175: You Were Trained to Feel Guilty for Leaving on Time
You Were Trained to Feel Guilty for Leaving on Time
If you’ve ever walked to your car at contract time and felt that tightness in your chest…
Like someone is watching.
Like someone is judging.
Like you should stay longer.
This episode is for you.
I share the first time a coworker accused me of not being a “team player” because I left on time — and why that moment changed everything for me.
We’re diving into:
• Where teacher guilt really comes from
• How school culture reinforces martyrdom
• Why leaving at contract time feels rebellious
• The psychology of belonging at work
• How to shift from guilt to neutrality
You don’t feel guilty because you’re wrong.
You feel guilty because you were trained to.
Let’s untangle it.
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I’m Helena Hains, a coach for new and first-year teachers, sharing knowledge on how to have a thriving career and personal life.
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